Wednesday, May 16, 2012

Public Displays of Disaffection

1. The main purpose of “Public Displays of Disaffection” by Anne Kingston is to provide an understanding and awareness of how cell phones are destroying teens and adults daily conversations, social gatherings and dining. There are three main points Kingston uses in this article. One of them is that people use their cell phones at inappropriate times, during this article she stats at the beginning how at a ceremony a “fifty-two year old, who received an honorary doctorate at the ceremony, took his seat…and began typing into his iPhone”. Usually at events like that people would find it rude. But no one did. Most of the graduates, she’s stats were also typing away on there mobile devices. Another point she stats in this article is that most people are very distracted by there cell phones. Even when someone is out for dinner with a friend or family member or even on a date will text, talk, or instagram on there phones. Not even paying attention the person they are with. But it doesn’t only happen during those times at the movies you always see “the distracting glow of PDA screens in theatres” the “loud cell phone conversations in elevators” and rude “multi-taskers [who] holding up lineups”. Cells phones cause many difficulties in relationships and social conversations and concentration. People can’t stand not looking at there for and eighty minute long movie. The last point that Kingston proved and stated well was cell phones are also very dangerous. Most people when on cell phones don’t pay attention to what’s happening, where they are walking and even worse where they are driving. In Ottawa the police did a test on distracted drivers they ended up “charging more than 2,000 people… one woman was so preoccupied with her cell she didn’t even notice the sirens flagging her down”. If a woman couldn’t even notice loud sirens and flashing lights how could she notice a child walking? Or notice that stop sign and that car crossing? With the points Kingston made and all the statistics she found of course I have to agree with her. I do the same I preoccupy myself with my cell phone at social gatherings but so does all my other friends. Just reading to see how society is and how terrible it is getting I agree that we need to make a change. Not only does it make you social awkward at times, it’s extremely dangerous if you’re not paying attention to your surroundings. Our society needs to realize how cell phones have come apart of who we are, when they’re really just a silly toy.


 2. Whenever I am at a movie theater and a cell phone goes off I immediately get mad, to me it’s unfair because they are interrupting something I’m enjoying. Cell phones can be acceptable at but at many times they can't. To me cell phones should not be aloud in classrooms. They are huge distractions. I know it would be hard to ban cell phones from school though because kids wouldn’t care and would still bring them and use them. But personally kids would be better off without them. Cell phones should be used when you are alone or not in conversations with someone, they should be used during breaks or personal times like at home. If you’re not using them on personal times then you’re just shutting yourself off from everything and everyone around you. You make yourself shut yourself out from conversations. Restaurants should ban them completely. It’s the rudest thing when you are asked out for dinner and your date or friend reaches in and texts while you’re eating together. It makes you feel unwanted and alone. At dinner texting shuts you out of everything; it shows you that your date doesn’t really care. Them texting when they are with you, gives you the feeling that they are more interested in the conversation their having on their phone, instead of the conversation you are having with them. I feel like it should be more like Europe, if we tried and could ban cell phones that would be great. But in North America they seem to be to import to people. I wish people could enjoy what’s around them and not be so occupied by there cells phones and just enjoy there friends, family, surroundings and daily lives.